Outpouring
of help
eases
pain for
Johnsburg
family
By Amy
R. Mack
|
Daily
Herald
Columnist
Published:
10/10/2007
5:36 PM
|
Updated:
10/11/2007
10:02 AM
Rarely would
Taylor
Radtke's mom
call herself
speechless,
but the
outpouring
of prayers,
medical
assistance
and support
for her
little girl
left Laurie
Radtke
struggling
today.
"I'm at a
loss for
words. All
these people
..." Radtke
said as she
raced her
7-year-old
daughter to
another
medical test
in light of
still more
grim news.
She and her
husband,
Lake Zurich
Fire Capt.
Jeff Radtke,
had just
learned
Taylor's
tumor -- a
clivus
meningioma
considered
inoperable
because of
its location
between the
brainstem
and spine --
is now
pressing on
Taylor's
optic nerve.
It has
already
harmed much
of her
vision in
her left eye
and, without
rapid
intervention,
will
permanently
damage her
right.
The news
turned the
Johnsburg's
couple's
already
difficult
quest to
find a
surgeon
willing to
chance the
risks and
remove the
tumor within
weeks --
when it's
believed it
will do
permanent
damage to
Taylor's
mobility --
into a
mission of
days. And
atop that
already
difficult
challenge,
they likely
will also
need to find
someone
willing to
fly them to
another
location for
that
surgery.
Already
feeling they
needed a
miracle,
they now
know they
need a few.
Helping
greatly amid
the distress
was the
avalanche of
e-mails and
phone calls
of hope,
prayer and
medical
suggestions
after news
of the
family's
challenge
was
published in
today's
Daily
Herald.
"All the
prayers and
thoughts and
insights --
people we
don't even
know -- it's
been so
reassuring,"
Laurie said.
"People from
as far south
as Wheaton
and St.
Charles,
even radio
stations.
It's so
reassuring
even though
we're still
in a panic
state."
The
ophthalmologist's
discovery
heightened
the
desperate
quest to
find someone
willing to
operate on
the tricky,
rapidly-growing
tumor.
Instead of
spreading
the word
with media
interviews
and
researching
options as
they'd
expected
today, the
Radtkes
raced into
Chicago for
yet another
test that
was moved up
because of
the latest
dire
discovery.
Taylor will
have yet
another
invasive
procedure
today.
"We're
trying to
save her
life," said
Mary Fox of
Palatine,
Taylor's
grandmother.
"She's our
whole
world."
Taylor has
turned a bit
clingy, but,
otherwise,
is doing OK,
they said
with her
family
sheltering
her a bit
from the
latest
difficult
news.
The little
girl, who
loves
animals and
cheerleading,
captured the
hearts of
Daily Herald
readers who
responded to
the family's
plea for
help with
countless
suggestions
for doctors
to contact.
People who
have faced
medical
crises of
their own,
parents of
sick
children,
medical
professionals
and people
simply
wanting to
help wrote
to offer
assistance.
"I know just
what they
are going
through as I
have just
gone through
it myself,"
wrote a
Naperville
woman. "I
also had a
meningioma
that was in
a web of
nerves at
the base of
my brain,
pressing on
the brain
tem. Every
neurosurgeon
in the
Chicago area
said it was
inoperable.
No one was
willing to
take a
chance on
me."
She found
help through
a team of
doctors in
Pittsburgh.
Others wrote
of success
here in the
Chicago area
with a
number of
different
surgeons.
Others
suggested
specialists
in Phoenix,
Los Angeles,
Boston and
Atlanta.
One area
doctor
offered to
stay late or
come in
early to see
if he could
help. Many
with ties to
physicians
called to
clear the
way for
appointments
with
specialists.
The Radtkes
are checking
them all.
Friends and
family have
rallied
around to
help track
down the
leads or
help arrange
air
transportation
if the vital
medical help
is in
another
state.
So far, that
has been a
challenge,
friend Lori
Vetter said.
Last-minute
volunteer
flights
through
groups like
Angel Flight
don't appear
to be an
option since
those are
volunteers
requiring
advance
notice and
extensive
medical
release
documents.
Airline
flights are,
thus far,
cost
prohibitive,
she added.
But the
search
continues.
"This family
is amazing
and we just
need to be
able to help
Taylor
anyway we
can," Vetter
said.
The support
group has
been buoyed
knowing
groups like
Make A Wish
will make
Taylor's
special wish
a priority.
In addition
to wanting
to see the
ESPN
cheerleading
championships,
she would
love to
visit the
San Diego
Zoo and hold
a baby
monkey.
The
cheerleading
request was
no surprise
to family
friend and
Taylor's
cheerleading
coach, Laura
Ward, who is
the
cheerleading
coach for
Taylor and
the
Johnsburg
Jayhawks.
"She's a
fireball,"
Ward said.
"It looks
like she has
someone
inside her
tickling
her.
"They're a
wonderful
family," she
added."
"We're just
trying to
pull
together as
a community
and friends
and give her
a chance."
So do
complete
strangers.
"I also was
in a
situation if
I did not
have surgery
I would not
have lived,"
one reader
wrote,
giving the
names of the
doctors who
helped her
and echoing
a sentiment
expressed by
many:
"I hope that
this can be
of some
help," she
added.
"Taylor, Mom
and Dad ..
you will all
be in my
prayers."
If you'd
like to pass
along any
advice or
can offer
help, e-mail
Amy Mack at
amack@dailyherald.com